Tuesday, December 8, 2015

How to fail?

How many times have you failed in your life? You've failed a lot of times but you don't remember it. You failed when you tried to walk for the first time. You failed when you started to ride a bike for the first time. You failed to write on the first attempt. This list is probably longer than you think. So by now you should've remembered that there isn't  success without failure.
If you read an autobiography of a famous person, you'll see that they failed a lot of times  before succeeding. Thomas Edison failed 99 before making the right light bulb, Michael Jordan didn't make his high-school basketball team on the first try. The founder of Alibaba the richest person in China was rejected 30 times. There are countless examples of famous people who failed at the beginning. But what separates these famous people from the ordinary people? Successful people don't give up after their failure. They learn from every failure. For them failing is the same with learning. Every time you fail you learn something new. The next time you will be better. You can't lose you can only learn.
A lot of people start their own blogs and websites. They try for a couple of weeks and if they are not making the money they thought that they will be making at the beginning they give up. Instead of trying different strategies and waiting a little, they give up. Do you want to be middle class for your whole life? Do you want to work for someone and don't earn as much as you want?  If you don't want this things you need to learn how to fail. Learning how to fail is one of the most important things you can learn. So are you ready to start failing?
There are some things you need to learn to make your fails softer and continue after every fail. First you need to know that every thing you start has a chance of failing. So prepare yourself mentally for the fail. Say to yourself I'm going to do everything I can to make my idea succeed. But there is a chance of me failing. If I fail i will try again until I nail it. Tell yourself these stories. After each failure start again. But before you start analyse your failure. See where you got it wrong and don't repeat the same mistakes again. And remember after your biggest failure comes your biggest success. It's a test from the universe to see how far are you willing to go to make your idea a reality.
I hope you learned how to fail. Failing is one the things that makes you better. The more you fail, the more you learn about yourself and about your idea. You are going to fail until you make it perfect. One success is worth more than 100 failures. The more you fail, the more success you will have later. So have fun failing.

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